Sometimes a wise man has more than one thing to say. That’s why we created our special B-SIDES category — a bonus treat for true MGL followers. A B-SIDE is a second piece of advice from a man who showed up on the front page of the site, but who just wouldn’t stop talking. The first B-SIDE comes from John, 50 — a man who’s been divorced and happily remarried, father of four, and he knows at least a couple things about love. He explains how “you’re not doing her any favors.” To check out John’s awesome B-SIDE, click here.